How to give erotic massages: our secrets and tricks

July 21, 2020

How to give erotic massages: our secrets and tricks

To truly enjoy an erotic massage, it's not enough to just have the intention; you also need to use a few secrets and tricks to make the experience the best it can be. Here, we'll show you some of the tricks we use to ensure our clients are always satisfied. This way, you can give your partner a wonderful erotic massage and strengthen your relationship even further.

Benefits of erotic massages

This type of massage brings couples closer together, allowing them to feel more connected than ever. Below are some of its many benefits.

Increased temperature : A good massage always raises the temperature. This increase is felt not only by the person receiving the massage but also by the person giving it. Arousal will be present in both parties.

Understanding your partner : To give your partner what they need, it's important to get to know them. Erotic massages are a great way to explore and understand your partner. This will make it easier for you to know what they like and how to provide it.

It improves communication : not only does it help make sex better by increasing arousal, but it also fosters deeper communication. All of this translates into a stronger connection with your partner.

What do you need to give an erotic massage?

It is true that erotic massage can be given naturally, but if we add a series of items to the massage, it will be of higher quality.

Erotic candles : the ambiance is truly important for achieving greater satisfaction for both partners during a massage. And candles can be a great help in creating the right atmosphere.

Massage oil : To avoid unpleasant sensations during the massage, it's recommended to always use a good variety of massage oil. There are different scents available; always choose one that's pleasant and that your partner will enjoy. There are even edible options if you plan to use your tongue to give your partner a massage.

Flavored lubricants : If you want the massage to have a happy ending, flavored lubricant is a must to enhance the experience. The key is to stimulate the senses and make the experience more positive.

And if you want to try new things, you can purchase accessories such as an eye mask, aphrodisiac incense… among many other things.

How to give a full erotic massage

An erotic massage can be performed on one or several areas of the body. If you truly want your partner to be satisfied and aroused, don't hesitate and opt for a full erotic massage. It could be described as a massage with a happy ending, and we'll show you how to do it to make the experience perfect.

Head massage : I recommend starting with a head massage to relax the person receiving the massage. Whether they're nervous or stressed, starting with the head will make relaxation easier. Always use gentle, slow movements to achieve the desired relaxation. For even greater relaxation, don't forget to massage the earlobes, as this is a very sensitive and stimulating area.

Back and chest massage : After massaging the head, I recommend moving down to the shoulders and then the back and chest. It's generally recommended to massage from the center of the chest outwards. The goal is to avoid touching bones and thus prevent injury if you're not experienced. If it's a woman, I recommend caressing her breasts in a circular motion to begin arousing her. Don't forget to massage the back as well. Some people start with the back and then move on to the chest. It's a matter of personal preference and what's needed at the moment.

Buttock massage : To massage them and achieve the desired experience, circular motions are always recommended. To create a little more arousal, you can lightly touch the vaginal opening or perineum, but always just a light touch to create excitement, nothing more.

Leg massage : Even though the person is already starting to get aroused, we'll keep them warm for a while longer and move from the buttocks to the legs and feet. This will help them relax. However, if they're ticklish on their feet, be very careful, and if they don't like having their feet touched, skip the foot massage.

Genital massage : Now we come to the most important point, the genital massage. This is the best time to give this massage. This is because the person is already relaxed and fully aroused, meaning you won't have any problems performing the massage.

After finishing the leg and foot massage, I recommend slightly opening their legs and slowly and erotically moving your hands up their legs to their genitals. At this point, their arousal will intensify, so don't stop and keep going to savor the moment. I recommend placing your hands in a triangle shape on the genital area, from the pubic bone to the base of the labia or testicles. Now, make circular motions with light pressure. Massage the area and let yourselves be carried away by the moment; this will depend on the couple. Most commonly, the massage ends with a happy ending. This ending could involve oral sex or another type of sexual activity. The important thing is to let go so that the experience is completely pleasurable for both of you. Remember, don't stop; keep going and take advantage of each other's arousal to experience things that would otherwise never have been possible.

Of course, to avoid any problems, I recommend giving the massage without a set schedule, with your phone turned off to avoid interruptions, without jewelry or accessories, creating a pleasant atmosphere, and trying new things to avoid monotony. And remember, body-to-body contact is truly exciting.