As they say, there is everything in this life. Until you know a man it is impossible to know what he really likes. But today we are going to show you a series of keys that will help you excite a man in bed easily.
It is true that there are many types of men, but the vast majority have a series of common weaknesses that you must take advantage of to achieve that excitement. If you want to know them, you just have to keep reading and then put them into practice with the man you like so much. You will see how you make him enjoy pleasure and he will want to repeat it with you.
Speak in an exciting tone
Men really like to be talked to, but without going overboard. When you are in bed with your partner, tell him/her things using a sensual tone of voice. It may seem silly, but if you use the tone of voice, arousal will be much easier for your partner.
In addition, a study from the University of Cleveland showed that arousal and pleasure increase when couples have sex and communicate with each other. That is, eliminate the idea of being silent during sex from your head. Bet on talking about interesting things. There are people who want to talk about dirty things, others about what is happening. Find the right topic and take advantage of this advice.
Passionate kisses
A big problem in a relationship is not knowing how to kiss. You have to be careful with moving your tongue too much, salivating too much... All of this means that the experience is lost along the way and what is something of passion becomes something unpleasant. Many studies have shown that a person who knows how to kiss is a person who knows how to do it well in bed.
To excite a man, it is essential to know how to kiss well. If you notice that your partner does not know how to kiss correctly, you can help them and thus ensure that the passion does not break at that moment. And remember, although it may seem that men don't like kissing, it's all a facade. Men like to kiss and be kissed. And when we talk about kisses, we're not just talking about kisses on the mouth, but also on the rest of the body. This way excitement will be guaranteed at all times.
Grab the hair and the back
It may seem silly, but a good part of men are turned on by having their hair grabbed and pulled a little, especially in the neck area. It's also a good idea to touch and grab the back. And if you say nice things to him, all the better. This will make it easier for you to achieve excitement.
Caress the nipples
It's something you have to be careful about. If this is going to be your first relationship with this man, do this step carefully. Caressing the nipples can be very exciting for some men, but not for others. If you don't want to risk it, you can ask him and if he is honest he will tell you if he likes it or not. According to a study, it is stipulated that 52% of men feel pleasure and the rest do not.
Caress the testicles
One of the most forgotten parts of men are the genitals. When women begin to stimulate men, they forget about that area and it is more important than it seems. Good stimulation can ensure pleasure. On the other hand, if it is left aside it can cause the pleasure to remain half-finished.
It has been shown that the vast majority of men like to have their testicles caressed. But not everyone is lucky enough to receive that stimulation from their partner. To provoke excitement through the testicles, it is recommended to caress them gently. You should never squeeze because it would cause pain and the excitement would end at that moment. Some ideas might be to touch them or even gently suck with your mouth. This way arousal will be easier for the man. Of course, if he asks you not to focus on that area, let him because some men don't like that kind of arousal.
Do oral sex
It is something very well known, but it is important to remember it. Oral sex will help a man reach climax much more easily. Of course, not just anything will do, fellatio must be appropriate to obtain the pleasure sought.
And if you have been with your partner for a long time, the best thing you can do is try different fellatios. Even if you think there is only one, that is not the case. Nowadays there are different types of fellatio that will break the harmony.
Head of the penis
You should know that the glans has a large number of nerves. To achieve pleasure, it is important to not forget the head of the penis. To give you an idea, it is the area most similar to a woman's clitoris. A good stimulation formula is to caress the area with your tongue while masturbating the penis with one hand. The experience is usually very pleasant, especially if while doing it you look directly into their eyes.
Ask for a final opinion
As we have mentioned previously, each man is different. If you consider that you are an expert with men, that does not mean that you will be an expert with your new partner. For this reason, when you have finished and are calm, it may be a good time to ask the man what he thought. If he is honest, he will tell you what he thought. This way you will be able to know what things they liked and what they didn't. Sincerity is essential to improve in the next relationship and thus ensure that pleasure is guaranteed. Don't be afraid to ask questions and receive criticism. These criticisms can be of great help when it comes to improving in the future, especially if you are very attracted to the man you are with.