Do you want to experience sexuality in a totally different way? Then it is time for you to start looking favorably on the world of tantric sex. In this world you will realize that living sexuality from a more conscious point is much easier. And as you can see, it will be a great tool to connect a little more with your partner and thus be happy with each other.
Everyone has heard about tantric sex, but not everyone knows very well what it consists of and how to start enjoying it to the fullest. What is clear is that it offers many benefits, both on a personal level and as a couple. It is important to eliminate misinformation and taboos to enjoy tantric sex to the fullest and that is why we are here.
What does tantric sex consist of?
We must eliminate from our minds the idea that tantric sex is only a means to enjoy a series of sexual positions. That is the Kamasutra and it is different from what we are talking about in this article.
Tantric sex is a way to connect mentally, physically and spiritually with your partner. For this reason, there are many couples who have problems and through tantric sex they put an end to them. Without a doubt, the evolution of the Eastern philosophy of tantra has allowed many couples to be closer and consequently much happier. What is clear is that a couple that is not connected is a couple that is doomed to fail sooner or later. For this reason, the tantric experience is always presented as a great tool.
Learn to know the bodies with tantric sex
Through tantric sex you will not only learn to know your own body better, but also that of your partner. Knowledge is vital to be able to offer what the other person needs. For this reason, tantra has more and more presence in our lives.
When we talk about tantra, we realize that there are no good and bad things, that is, everything is good and we must learn to love it as it is. There are no ugly or pretty things, but natural ones. When we learn that natural things are the best option, we realize that our body is perfect, as is our partner's. We have to learn to love ourselves as we are and let go of stereotypes that take us nowhere. When we realize that, it is much easier for us to love and explore our bodies and that of our partner.
The objective of knowing bodies is to learn to discover the things you need and like. Once we have that information, generating pleasure is easier and as you can imagine, the pleasure experienced can last longer. It is important to be clear that with tantric sex, pleasure is the most important thing, even above the orgasm itself.
How to enjoy a pleasurable experience with tantric sex
What is clear is that more and more couples want to enjoy this modality because it only offers advantages. Of course, we want to make it clear that enjoying it is not easy at first. We must go through a period of learning that will take us directly to the pleasure we seek. To achieve this, it is necessary to practice it, put into practice simple exercises and, above all, have patience. We can assure you that patience will pay off and you will be able to enjoy pleasures that you have never enjoyed before.
That said, we are going to show you a list of exercises with which it will be easier for you to get started in this practice.
1- Eye contact
To begin a good connection with your partner, it is vital that there is good eye contact. The look can send messages that we would not otherwise send and exchange energy. Surely on more than one occasion, especially at the beginning of the relationship, just by looking into your partner's eyes you felt things that you couldn't describe.
Well now you can feel them again with this modality. Eye contact must be pure. If it really is pure, it will be very easy for you to strengthen the emotional bond again and achieve a much higher degree of intimacy.
2- Breathing
Breathing is something very important in our life. It is true that we breathe without realizing it, but on many occasions that breathing is not adequate.
If you really want to enjoy good tantric experiences with your partner, you must learn to breathe correctly. To be successful, it is best for the couple to sit opposite each other. At that moment you have to start doing slow and harmonious breathing exercises. To be successful, it is important to seek to bring the air to the part of the diaphragm.
When you notice that deep breathing begins to be easy, it will be time to ask your partner if it is also easy for them. If both parties agree, it will be time to synchronize your breathing with your partner. The goal is to try to function as if it were just one unit. This way it will be much easier to combine energies and enjoy sensations that you would not be able to experience otherwise.
3- Foreplay
The secret of tantric sex is foreplay and activities without schedules. It is important to let go and leave stress and schedules aside. We know that it is not easy to achieve it, but when you achieve it everything becomes much easier.
4- Prolongation of pleasure
By not seeking orgasm as the final goal, pleasure can be prolonged as long as you want. At first it can be complicated because the change in mentality is radical, but when it is achieved it is worth it.
Prolonging the pleasure makes the experience much more satisfying. Furthermore, you realize how important your partner is to you and that orgasm is not everything in sex. We invite you to try it because once you try it your thinking will change automatically.